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Your State > Your Stage
As January 1 arrives, I find myself naturally drawn to introspection. Yet, in this annual ritual, I’ve noticed a recurring theme: my reflections often emanate from a place of ego rather than genuine self-awareness or connection to my soul. I assess my standing in the grand tapestry of my professional life, as a father, a husband, and beyond. Regrettably, the ego tends to hijack these contemplations, leading me into a realm of imaginary metrics, weighing scales, and Excel sheets, creating an illusion of improved control today over yesterday. I admit, it’s a deceptive mindset.
Today, more than ever, I am acutely aware that by immersing myself in a beautiful state of consciousness, everything eventually aligns and harmonizes – like a river flowing seamlessly. What does it mean to step into our days with such grace?
In the wise words of Henry Nouwen, it starts with the daily acknowledgment that ‘we are not defined by what we do, what we possess, or others’ perceptions of us’. Cleansing the mental windshield of these three illusions allows me to perceive the world through more beautiful eyes. Time slows down, the seemingly monumental challenges lose their weight, and the mundane transforms into sacred moments of the present.
I share this not as a cliché, but as a reminder that if you aspire to a better life, begin with a conversation focused on subtraction rather than addition. As the veils of illusion are lifted, you’ll discover that life itself is a gift. Regardless of the stage you find yourself in, a state of beautiful and grateful consciousness serves as the most remarkable guide through that chapter of life’s journey.
Beautiful eyes will eventually lead you to beautiful places.